Dear younger self,
I hope this letter finds you filled with the same boundless energy and curiosity that defined you. As I sit here, a few years down the road, I want to share some wisdom and encouragement that I wish I had known earlier.
Firstly, know that it’s okay to feel overwhelmed. Love, in all its forms, can be a whirlwind of emotions. Remember, it’s normal to have moments of uncertainty and fear. Those moments are part of the journey and make the moments of pure joy all the more precious.
Embrace your uniqueness. In a world that often tries to fit you into boxes, stay true to who you are. Your individuality is what makes you special and attractive to the right person. Don’t be afraid to express yourself freely and honestly.
Communication is key. From the very beginning, make sure to talk openly about your feelings, your dreams, and your fears. There’s a saying that goes, ‘The art of communication is the language of leadership’ and it applies to love too. Real-life example? Think of how Anne and Carl from ‘Up’ communicated their love through simple gestures and shared moments, creating a bond that lasted a lifetime.
Trust is the foundation of any relationship. Build it slowly but surely. It’s like a beautiful garden; it takes time to grow and flourish. Trust your instincts; if something or someone doesn’t feel right, don’t be afraid to step back and reassess.
Be patient. Love doesn’t always happen overnight. Sometimes, it takes time to develop and deepen. Don’t rush into commitments or expect instant perfection. Enjoy the journey and the small milestones along the way.
Lastly, never forget to love yourself. You can’t pour from an empty cup, and you can’t truly love another person until you love yourself. Take time for self-care, pursue your passions, and surround yourself with people who uplift and support you.
Here’s a tip for you: Try the ‘Love Maps’ game. It’s a fun and insightful activity where you and your partner take turns asking each other questions about your hopes, dreams, and fears. It’s a great way to deepen your connection and understand each other better.
Remember, every heartache and every triumph shapes you into the person you are meant to be. Enjoy the ride, for it is yours to cherish.
With all my love,
Your older self.
